RHOM’s Alexia Nepola Gives Surprising Update on Relationship With Ex-Husband Todd (July 2025) tram

The course of love and divorce never did run smooth. This is especially true for Real Housewives of Miami star Alexia Nepola. She went through an on-again, off-again divorce from ex-husband Todd Nepola. But it’s finally final and it looks like there’s no going back this time.

The tea has already been pretty hot in the latest season of RHOM. And Alexia and Todd’s up and down relationship has been something Alexia has been struggling with. Despite everything they’ve gone through, it looked like she couldn’t seem to quit him even when she felt betrayed by him. However, it was only a matter of time before she needed to put herself first.

Alexia and Todd Nepola are “in no contact” after divorce

It looks like that time has come. Alexia is no longer on speaking terms with Todd and is getting some much needed space. The divorce was finalized last March and the last thing she needs is to be going back to him; or falling into bed with him again.

“We are not talking. We are in no contact,” Alexia shared in a sitdown with Entertainment Tonight. “I had to choose me. I had to do what was best for me right now. And for me, right now, I need peace and I need distance, and I need clarity.”

She concluded, “I feel the best thing for me right now is just to be on my own.”

This update comes more than one year after Todd filed for divorce, something that Alexia says she never saw coming. She admitted they had some problems, but she never thought it would come to that. She expected they would be able to work it out before going to the extreme.

“I wasn’t expecting it,” she said. “I was so blindsided.”

However, the divorce filing didn’t mean the end of their relationship. The two remained in a weird situationship that saw them reconciling during the divorce process. In fact, Alexia even admitted to being intimate with Todd just last month despite saying she was technically single.

Now it looks like she’s not just technically single but well and truly single. And it’s good that she’s stepped back from Todd to allow herself the space to move on.