Why Love Island’s Helena holding out for Harry will RUIN her career – and what he told me that proves he ngocc

IT is a scenario we've all witnessed - or perhaps even lived through ourselves.

Boy meets girl. Boy cheats on girl. Girl tells friends they're definitely over. Girl secretly thinks she can change boy. Girl takes boy back. Boy doesn't change.

You can change the genders whichever way around you like, but regardless, we're about half way through this storyline playing out between Love Island's Helena and Harry.

The couple were over before they began because of the footballer's wandering eye, with Helena moaning about being made to look like a mug.

She appeared to have conveniently forgotten however, about running to the Hideaway with Harry while he was coupled up with Shakira - just 56 hours after meeting.

Despite an intimate night in the boudoir, Harry then snogged saucy sexpot Yasmin behind Helena's back before ending up back with Shakira again.

Through tears last night, Harry admitted to having regrets about 'cheating' on Helena, who has barely been able to look at him since.

But before Helena could take him back, she was whisked away for a sleepover with bombshell Giorgio.

He's not the air stewardesses' usual type, but he's the perfect distraction to stop Helena reuniting with Harry.

I have no doubt Helena will end up back with Harry in a storyline set to rumble on this series, but I'm here to warn her that holding out for him will RUIN her career.

Aside from her obvious similarities to Love Island legend Olivia Attwood, Helena's got the potential to be a stand-out star of the series thanks to her hilarious wit and bombshell beauty.

She had the villa in hysterics when, during a game of Spin the Bottle, she dared ex Harry "to go home".

But if she doesn't stick to her guns and stay far away from Harry, she's going to come across more like pushover Chloe Burrows who kept going back for Toby Aromolaran than brave Liberty Poole who dumped Jake Cornish and left the villa on her own accord.

By proving she knows her worth and can resist Harry's temptation, Helena will secure herself an army of female fans they can look up to.

She'll be able to capitalise on this by landing lucrative deals with empowering female brands instead of facing heartbreak once they're out the villa when Harry inevitably cheats.

I say this because a leopard never changes its spots - and if he's already untrustworthy while living 24/7 under the same roof, then I don't hold out much hope.

My assumption is also based on what Harry told me before going into Love Island.

While the 30-year-old was in isolation days before the series launch, Harry's ex said he dumped her for Love Island - despite claiming he was going to Bali for the summer.

When I confronted him about this, Harry played Mr Innocent.

"Oh that sounds so terrible, wow," he exclaimed.

"No, we were casually dating and I told her I was going away for the summer and we left it there. I didn't 'dump' anyone."

In fact, Harry went on to rubbish the idea he was as much of a "player" in dating as he was on the pitch.

"I think that is the reputation footballers get, but I can only be myself and that's not who I am," Harry insisted to me.

"I'm not a player.

"I'm 30. I've got a mullet. I'm ready for something serious."

As he said this, with a twinkle in his eye and dimple in his smile, it was difficult not to fall for Harry's charm.

But Helena needs to be strong and resist - or face being played by a player who has no intention of settling down.