Munroe Bergdorf: ‘It’s Got Much Worse’ – A Trailblazer Speaks Out on Trans Vulnerability and Activism
In an emotional and thought-provoking appearance on Loose Women, trailblazing activist and author Munroe Bergdorf discussed the challenges facing the trans community today, the importance of connection in a divided world, and her new book, Talk to Me: How to Talk About the Things That Matter. Marking the beginning of Pride Month, Bergdorf’s candid reflections highlighted the urgency of fostering understanding, empathy, and solidarity in an increasingly polarized society.
A Community Under Threat: “It’s Got Much Worse”
Reflecting on cultural and societal changes since her last appearance on the show in 2023, Bergdorf expressed deep concern for the trans community. “It’s gotten much, much worse,” she said, pointing to systemic issues like misogyny and recent legal rulings that have left trans people more vulnerable than ever.
One key example she mentioned was the U.K. Supreme Court ruling that removed trans people from the Equality Act, which protects against discrimination. This decision, she explained, has far-reaching consequences, affecting access to workplaces, public spaces, and even basic participation in daily life.
“I want to send my love to trans people, especially young trans people, because it’s a really scary time,” Bergdorf said. She also drew parallels to her own upbringing during Section 28, a law that prohibited the promotion of homosexuality in schools, leaving LGBTQ+ youth isolated and unsupported.
The Power of Connection Over Perfection
In discussing the challenges of navigating today’s “cancel culture” and the fear surrounding open dialogue, Bergdorf emphasized the need for connection rather than perfection. “We’re scared of saying the wrong thing and hurting each other,” she said. “But it’s important to prioritize connection.”
Her book, Talk to Me, seeks to cut through the noise of culture wars and divisive debates by encouraging honest and meaningful conversations. Bergdorf argued that much of the hostility surrounding issues like trans rights stems from a lack of humanity in public discourse. “When we’re speaking about transgender ideology or small boats, it’s taking the humanity out of the conversation. Let’s put that back and connect as people.”
Growing Up in Silence
Bergdorf also shared insights from her personal journey, reflecting on her experience growing up in a predominantly middle-class area during a time when issues like race, sexuality, and gender identity were rarely, if ever, discussed.
“I felt isolated,” she admitted. “It was a no-no to talk about racism or sexuality, whether at home or in school. There was no representation, no space to discuss who I was.”
This isolation fueled her desire to write her book, which aims to offer hope and solutions for those who feel lost or unheard. “This book isn’t just about my story—it’s about how we can solve these problems and feel less isolated, more connected.”
Activism as a Collective Effort
Bergdorf redefined activism as something that involves everyone, not just high-profile advocates or public figures. “Activism is a machine, and it takes all of us. Society involves us all,” she explained.
She criticized the divisive nature of modern discourse, where people are often pitted against one another by media narratives or cultural rhetoric. “Trans people aren’t going anywhere. Black people aren’t going anywhere. Jewish people aren’t going anywhere. White people aren’t going anywhere. We need to find a way to live together.”
Her call to action was clear: every person can make a difference, no matter how small. Whether it’s having conversations, forming friendships with people from different backgrounds, or simply being open to learning, activism starts with connection and empathy.
Addressing Fear and Misunderstanding
One of the most powerful moments in the discussion came when Bergdorf acknowledged the fear many people feel when discussing sensitive topics like trans rights. She reassured viewers that it’s okay to make mistakes as long as they’re willing to learn.
“It’s not about being afraid to be corrected. If you say something wrong, it’s a chance to learn. None of us know everything, and that’s okay,” she said.
Bergdorf also encouraged viewers to step outside their comfort zones and engage with people who are different from them. “We’ve been through this before, whether it was immigration during the Windrush era or other societal changes. People fear what they don’t know. Make trans friends, make gay friends, make friends with people who are different.”
A Message of Hope and Unity
Despite the challenges, Bergdorf remains optimistic about the potential for change. Her message was clear: unity, empathy, and dialogue are the keys to overcoming division.
“Division only benefits those who seek to maintain the status quo,” she said. “If we’re divided, the cycle of hate and misunderstanding will continue. But if we stand together—women supporting women, communities supporting one another—we can create a better world.”
Final Thoughts
Munroe Bergdorf’s appearance on Loose Women was a powerful reminder of the importance of compassion and courage in today’s complex world. Her book, Talk to Me, is both a call to action and a roadmap for navigating difficult conversations with kindness and understanding.
As the show concluded, the hosts praised Bergdorf for her tireless advocacy and willingness to tackle tough issues head-on. “You make a difference every time you come on a show like this,” they said.
Talk to Me: How to Talk About the Things That Matter is available now, offering readers the tools to bridge divides and find common ground in an increasingly divided society.
