IT used to be that when women turned 50, they were branded “past it” and banished from the public eye forever.
Thankfully, no more – and who better to prove it than Kirsty Gallacher, who hits her half-century milestone next January.
She has never looked hotter, felt happier, or been more fulfilled in her presenting career after landing the coveted drive-time show at Gold Radio.
“I’m not scared of turning 50,” she says. “I’m happy.
"I think there’s something rather wonderful about being in my 50th year in my dream job.
“It’s an interesting time for women.
"Why would we be thinking about retiring?
"Why would we be marginalised? Why do you hit an age where it’s like: ‘Oh, god [you have to disappear].’
"I’ve started a job I could be doing for 20 years. It’s so interesting. It feels like a rebirth for me.
“I personally look up to people that are older than me like Davina McCall, Louise Redknapp, Tess Daly and Gabby Logan.
"They are all my friends and it’s their strength, character and beauty [that defines them].
“The narrative has shifted. We look different – there’s not that ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ attitude now.
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"It’s a wonderful time to be a woman. I am 49 and I feel better than ever.”
Her new radio role came at the perfect time for Kirsty – who studied at London College of Fashion before falling into TV presenting and clocking up 20 years at Sky Sports – after a health scare caused her to step away from her high-profile job on the breakfast show at GB News in December 2021.
“It didn’t work out for me at GB News.
"Everyone was great, but the show wasn’t right for me.
"Life is short and it was affecting me emotionally, as I discovered I had a benign tumour in my ear.”
"I went to see a doctor, who said it could be a brain tumour."
Kirsty, who’s a single mum to sons Oscar, 18, and Jude, 15, explains: “I was doing GB rehearsals and I had my earpiece, but I couldn’t hear.
"I had been travelling a bit and I thought maybe I had a bit of a cold.
“Then I literally woke up one morning and couldn’t hear properly.
"I went to see a doctor, who said it was an emergency as it could be a brain tumour.
“I had to have an MRI and doctors discovered I had an acoustic neuroma [a tumour in the inner ear canal].
"We have to monitor it as I don’t want them to operate on it as it’s so close to the brain.
"I have to have targeted radiotherapy for it, so I’m having to think about that and when I will do it.
“I wasn’t strong when I found out about it, thinking about the kids and what could happen to me.
"But I know I am very lucky, as it could have been worse.
"I’m fine, I just have to be mindful that everything’s alright and it’s just an annoyance, really.
"I’m very lucky and grateful.”
Of course, it’s not just a new job that’s making Kirsty smile.
Her partner Darren Clayton, 39, who she describes as “a rather large, hunky bloke”, can certainly take some of the credit.
Just the mention of him makes her break out into a grin.
“He is a lovely man, he’s wonderful and so supportive.
"We met in September 2023, so it’s coming up to two years.
'AURA AND CHARISMA'
"I met him with Gabby Logan through an event her husband Kenny was running for our dear friend [former rugby union player] Doddie Weir, who sadly passed from motor neurone disease.”
“I’m an ambassador for the My Name’5 Doddie Foundation, so me and Gabby did a walk from Bisham Abbey to Paris, and I met Darren that day.
"He loosely knew Kenny, as they both run events management companies. I went: ‘Ooh, you’re nice.’
“You think that romantic ideal of love at first sight doesn’t exist. But it did when I met him.
"I liked his aura and his charisma. Then I got to know him and he’s brilliant.
“He asked me out in Paris – Gabby and I were on the Eurostar, giggling like schoolgirls.
"I was there when she met Kenny, too. Isn’t it wonderful that our friendship is still going strong?”
Kirsty also discovered on the trip that there was a slight age difference between her and Darren.
“Yes, he’s 10 years younger,” she says. “It’s hilarious.
"I heard him talking and he mentioned his age and I thought: ‘Oh, god, I really fancy him, but maybe there’s too many years difference.’
He didn’t know what age I was either. But then it was like ‘bang’ and it didn’t matter.”
She adds: “To be honest I’ve never really been one of those people that has an ideal in my head of what my partner should look like.
"I just go with my gut when it comes to career, friends or men.
"I say to him jokingly that he looks older than me and he always will, because he played rugby!
“I just don’t care what age he is. He’s 40 later this year and then the following month I’m 50.
"We laugh about having a joint 90th birthday. That’s awful, isn’t it?” she laughs.
“Ultimately, it doesn’t bother us. People think it’s great, it’s cooler to have an older woman now.
"All I think is: ‘Does it work?’ Which it does. He’s way less worried about it than me.
"Now and again I go: ‘Oh, god!’ But that’s just me being neurotic and overthinking.”
Now, Kirsty – who split from her husband of four years and father of her boys, Paul Sampson, 47, in August 2015 – is navigating being part of a blended family.
“Darren is the kindest,” she explains. “He takes on a lot.
"He’s taken Jude to school today.
"With a new job it can feel like a bit of a jigsaw puzzle juggling it all. But he cares.
"The boys love him. He’s got a wonderful daughter, Alexa, and she is brilliant with my two.
"I never had a girl, so I’m enjoying doing slightly girly things with her.
“We didn’t really overthink blending the families. It all just slotted in organically and naturally.
"He’s brilliant with my kids because they’re sporty boys and he’s a very avid golfer.
"My youngest, Jude, wants to be a professional golfer or rugby player.
"Darren played rugby and he loves animals, which we are obsessed with as a family.
“I’m so grateful, as it would have been really distressing [if blending their families hadn’t been successful] and I know a lot of friends who do have to work on it.
"I would really have found that very difficult.
“We have fallen into a nice way of life.
"We don’t live together, although of course we would love that someday.
"We talk about what the future holds, but at the moment it’s all just really lovely.
"My kids are with me 100% of the time, and he shares his daughter with his ex.”
In fact, the pair are so loved-up, Kirsty is even considering tying the knot again.
“We do talk about getting married.
